I love changing the look and configuration of our house not only without but within, such as knocking down our front plant boxes to accommodate al fresco space for M.'s cafe. It s called going for curb appeal.

I wonder why other men are so afraid to do the same. So what if they spent so much money on something that they built in the past? Why does changing that upset them and make them feel insecure?

Changing the way your house looks is like changing your clothes, your jewelry, or your haircut. It just has to be done.